3 Questions That Will Change Your Life TODAY!

Questions

My late father, Clarence E. Stowers Sr., would always tell me, “Son, find a story and tell it well.”  To steal one of the ancient slogans in advertising, “your brand is the truth about you, well told.”  This year many resolved to make lasting changes and become the best version of themselves.  I call it Version 2.0 – The me God wants me to be.  In order to upgrade to Version 2.0, I encourage you to spend time pondering the following questions:

1.       So Who Are You?

Like every organization, every person has a dozen good stories that reveal that person.  Stories move people. Stories excite people. Stories change people.  Your task is to write your story – the true story.  Ask for input from someone who knows you well; someone who can give you perspective.  Start there.  Get help, if necessary, but do it TODAY!

2.       What Do You Do?

Most banks who lend money (Pre-Mortgage Crisis Meltdown) almost always ask this question of organizations that come to them for money.  It’s a simple question, but the answers often are not.  You must answer simply, too.  Otherwise you will confuse people.  If it sounds like you do many things, or too many seemingly unrelated things, people will assume you cannot do any of them well.  Here’s an assignment: Ask and answer “What do you do?”  Show it to four people whose opinion you value and ask them:

a.      Is it clear?

b.      Is it simple?

3.       What Difference You Are Making?

Can you describe what difference you are making in three sentences or less?  Are you ready for this challenge?  Marketers often refer to the necessity of defining one’s “point of difference.”  You must not merely answer what makes you different, but how what you do makes a difference for others.  Ask and answer “What difference am I making?”  Show it to four people whose opinion you value and demand they be ruthlessly tough with their answers.

There are other questions, too; I doubt this list is exhaustive.  But I think I have covered the major ones.

Question: What other life-changing questions do you currently ask? 

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Clarence E. Stowers, Jr.

Senior Pastor
Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago
5916 W. Lake Street
Chicago, IL 60644
Phone: 773-287-3535
Fax: 773-287-7133
pastorstowers@marshillchgo.org
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Can An Eight-Year-Old Understand It?

Focus

Quick: Explain Sunday’s message in three sentences to your eight-year-old niece or nephew (scroll down to the end if want to see my explanation)

Why: The point here is to test your ability to communicate complex ideas in simple language.

In my opinion, the problem with preaching is that most preachers try to be deep instead of relevant.  I know many preachers who are thrilled to spend precious time explaining the syntax and morphology of a word while people are one decision away from moral, financial, relational, & marital ruin. 

Additionally, I’ve attended many preaching conferences that’ll declare you’re a heretic if you don’t preach expositionally (and buy their software & books).  Too many preachers are so caught up in trying to impress other preachers or their seminary professors. 

PREACHERS: Every single person who sits politely and listens to you on Sunday is one decision away from ruin.  Many are considering options with consequences that will follow them the remainder of their lives.  There they sit.  Waiting.  Hoping.  Doubting.  Anticipating.  What are we going to do?  What are you going to say?  This is the world we have been called to address. 

So, what can you do?  Write messages for real people.  Answer the “so why does this matter question” Connect with real life, transform, not just inform.  If it doesn’t help them get through Monday, why preach it?

Preachers, let this be the year we decide to direct *SOME* of our messages towards people’s needs.
 What are they?  I’m glad you asked!

-purpose
-finances
-love
-relationship
-sex/purity
-fear
-friendships
-marriages
-kids
-wounds and shame
-addiction
-failure
-conflict
-loneliness
-approval
-belief/apologetics/doubts
-hope
-stress

This is the world we have been called to address.  These are the issues we have been called to confront.  There is too much at stake.  The great news is the pages of Scripture are filled with principles, narratives, and truth that address each of those needs.  The question you must answer: To what extreme are you willing to go to create a delivery system that will connect with the heart of your audience? 

Andy Stanley asks:

Are you willing to abandon a style, an approach, a system that was designed in another era for a culture that no longer exists?  Are you willing to step out of your comfort zone in order to step into the lives God has placed in your care?  Will you consider letting go of your alliterations and acrostics and three point outlines and talk to people in terms they understand.  Will you, as Andy Stanley suggest, communicate for life change?

Here's my explanation:  We all make choices & they make life either good or bad.  The choices you make today & tomorrow will make life fun or bad.  One day you will have to explain to your children why you made that choice – choose wisely.”

My Resolutions for 2010

The week between Christmas and the New Year has been officially declared as the most “unproductive” times of the year.  While surfing the web, I ran across Michael Hyatt’s excellent blog, which inspired me to think long and hard about what I want to accomplish in 2010.

In order to make my resolutions stick, I decided to employ Michael Hyatt’s four strategies found here.  Therefore, let it be resolved:

  1. That I will read through the entire Bible by December 31, 2010 using YouVersion’s Chronological plan as my guide (started Day 1 yesterday).
  2. That I will lose fifteen pounds (current weight: 217) by exercising a minimum of 3 days per week with a minimum of 20 minutes of cardio during each exercise session.  I will accomplish this by July 30, 2010
  3. That I will continue to resist the lure, draw, and undeniable seductiveness of late night unhealthy snacks like candy, soda, cookies, & other fattening foods and replace them with fruit.
  4. That I will finish the first draft of my new book by June 30, 2010.
  5. That I will write at least three posts per week in my personal blog, where I share my thoughts/ideas on leadership from an urban perspective and some general life musings.

So let it be noted.  So let it be done.  And please give me a swift kick in the rear end if you see me getting off track.

What are your goals & have you gone public with them?

2010 Message Series: "Be The Change"

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Do you want to make better decisions this year?

Throughout our lives, we are confronted with decisions we never
anticipated having to make.  Relationship decisions…Career
decisions…Financial decisions…Parenting decisions.  The list goes
on & on.  To complicate matters further, the time frame for making
decisions is often short and our options are limited.  Regardless, a
decision must be made.  So, what do you do when you must decide and
you aren’t sure what to do?

1/3: Just Be Honest (Jeremiah 17:9)

Break up or press on?  Explore new job opportunities or stay put?  Say
something or stay silent?

We are all faced with decisions that we never anticipated having to
make. And we usually have to make them quickly. So what do we do? In
this message, Pastor Clarence Stowers reveals an important question we
need to ask ourselves as we're deciding.

1/10: So, What’s Your Story? (Genesis 39:8-10)

Every decision and the outcomes of those decisions become a permanent
part of your story. Luckily, in God’s big picture, you get to write
that story. So, what can you do to make it a story you want to tell?
In this message, Pastor Stowers asks the second of four questions you
need to consider to ensure a life story worth telling.

1/17: Tension (1 Samuel 24)

Often, a ‘tension’ arises when we face unexpected circumstances
that require immediate action. And it signals a need to . . . pause.
When that happens, there’s a question we need to ask ourselves. In
this message, Pastor Stowers reveals that question.

1/24: An Audience of One (1 Corinthians 6:19-20; Matthew 5:14-16)

Do you sometimes wonder if there’s more to this life than this life?
In the last of this four-part series, Pastor Stowers addresses that
issue and gives us the fourth question we need to ask when we are
forced to make unexpected decisions. This question raises the bar and
brings extraordinary clarity to our decision-making process.

So why not join us for this life-changing series!  Our service times: 8:00AM (Classic Worship Experience) & 10:30AM (Contemporary Worship Experience)


Senior Pastor
Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago
5916 W. Lake Street
Chicago, IL 60644
Phone: 773-287-3535
Fax: 773-287-7133
pastorstowers@marshillchgo.org
Visit our church @ Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago
Latest on my blog @ The Urban Pastor
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Books That Transformed My Life This Last Decade - Part 1

I love reading books, and like many of you, I read a lot of books in the last 10 years.  Half of the decade I spent in graduate school (finishing up my Doctor of Ministry degree) so there were a lot of books to be read and I just really enjoy reading anyways.  I read about 500 books this last decade and there were a lot of great ones….some good ones….and some not so good ones. But there were definitely some books that stood out and really changed my life.


There are many books that I consider to have greatly been a part of spiritually transforming my life.  When I chose my books there were some basic criteria that I considered:

  1. I didn’t list the bible, because I’m hoping you assume that that is the book that has spiritually transformed me the most.
  2. They were memorable (some books are just forgettable, and these were not)
  3. They didn’t have to be written this decade
  4. They are ones that I recommend to everyone
  5. They are leading works in their field
  6. They are ones that I have read multiple times, or are back on the reading rotation to read again
  7. They needed to have fundamentally shifted some area of my thinking–paradigm shifting influence
  8. They transformed me spiritually (my theology, my ministry, my prayer life, my leadership, my preaching, my counseling, my pastoring, my understanding of humanity, my relationship with God, etc.)

Additionally, since I have so many recommendations, I’ve decided to break them down into the following categories: Church Growth, Theology, Christian Living, Leadership, Self-Improvement, Business, Sociology, and African-American Studies.  I will devote blog space to cover each category in subsequent posts.

Here we go:

Church Growth

African American Church Management Handbook by Floyd Flake

Highly regarded pastor Floyd Flake; his wife, co-pastor, author, Elaine Flake; and church chief financial officer Edwin Reed offer a design based on key needs in the black church, and their experience at one of the nation's most respected and largest black churches, Greater Allen A.M.E. Cathedral in New York.  This unique, detailed, and thorough resource for black churches of any denomination covers virtually all aspects of church management from the theoretical and theological to the practical "nuts and bolts" of church administration.  The authors include a special section offering principles for economic development, an area in which Greater Allen A.M.E. Cathedral has experienced extraordinary success. The African American Church Management Handbook is sure to find a permanent place on the desks of African American pastors, seminarians, and church leaders for many years to come.

Church Growth From An African American Perspective

Church Growth From An African American Perspective is a MUST READ FOR EVERY INNER-CITY PASTOR!!!

This book is Pastor Donald Hilliard's charge to active church groups to adopt and integrate a healthy Christian/biblical model for congregation growth and development. Senior pastor of Cathedral International in Perth Amboy, New Jersey, Pastor Hilliard posits the value of the three basic L's for growth: love, lift, and liberate. The power of the church to love, lift and liberate people through the truth of the gospel will sustain and propel them to become what God intends them to be. Pastor Hilliard differentiates between healthy and unhealthy growth in a church. He advocates purposeful prayer and preaching the whole word of God, not just favorite Scriptures. He believes that people matter more than programs, and that programs exist only to meet people's needs. At the end of each chapter of explanation there are a series of action steps that will lead to a full and healthy development of the practical dimensions of a powerful African American church. "Church Growth From and African American Perspective" has many sound principles to recommend it to all congregations.

The Purpose Driven Church by Rick Warren
This book forever changed my view of church growth.  The thesis of The Purpose Driven Church is that when churches think first about their health, growth is sure to follow. "If your church is healthy," writes Rick Warren, "growth will occur naturally. Healthy, consistent growth is the result of balancing the five biblical purposes of the church." These five purposes are to "Love the Lord with all your heart," "Love your neighbor as yourself," "Go and make disciples," "[Baptize] them," and "[Teach] them to obey."  I will forever be grateful for Rick’s contribution to the Kingdom of God.

Natural Church Development: A Guide to Eight Essential Qualities of Healthy Churches by Christian Schwarz

Critics of the church growth movement have often emphasized the need for quality congregations. We should not focus on numerical growth, but rather, we should concentrate on qualitative growth.

Although it’s a bit academic, Christian Schwarz has done extensive research world-wide and found that healthy, growing churches seem to share eight quality characteristics. These characteristics are:

  1. Empowering leadership
  2. Gift-oriented ministry
  3. Passionate spirituality
  4. Functional structures
  5. Inspiring worship service
  6. Holistic small groups
  7. Need-oriented evangelism
  8. Loving relationships

Schwarz uses the illustration of a barrel with eight staves to symbolize the eight quality characteristics. The barrel can only hold water to the height of the lowest stave. So too, Schwarz argues, a church can only grow as far as their 'Minimum factor,' which is the lowest of the eight quality characteristics in their church. He challenges churches to resist the temptation to work on improving areas in which they already excel, for by doing this they do not increase their minimum factor or their church quality.

Simple Church: Returning to God's Process for Making Disciples by Thom Rainer

While The Purpose Driven Church taught me how to grow a healthy church, The Simple Church taught me what to do with the harvest.  According to Thom Rainer and Eric Geiger, the simple revolution has begun.  From the design of the iPod to the uncluttered Google home page, simple ideas are changing the world.

Simple Church clearly calls for Christians to return to the simple gospel-sharing methods of Jesus. No bells or whistles required, so to speak.  Based on case studies of four hundred American churches, authors Thom Rainer and Eric Geiger prove that the process for making disciples has quite often become too complex.  Simple churches are thriving, and they are doing so by taking these four ideas to heart: Clarity. Movement.  Alignment. Focus. Each idea is examined here, simply showing why it is time to simplify.

Seven Practices of Effective Ministry by Andy Stanley

In my humble opinion, Andy Stanley is Rick Warren 2.0!  I love Andy’s practical writing style and he understands the mind of pastors & church leaders.  Seven Practices of Effective Ministry taught me how to measure our church’s effectiveness.  There’s no scoreboard in the sanctuary, and the only plate is probably for the offering. But every church leader needs to know how to win, and every congregation needs to know when to cheer.

This insightful book speaks to every church leader who yearns for a simpler, more effective approach to ministry.  An engaging parable about one overwhelmed pastor is followed by an overview of seven successful team practices, each one developed and applied in a ministry setting. Reinforced by relevant discussion questions, these clear, easy, and strategic practices can turn any ministry into a winning team.  Like your own personal trainer, 7 Practices of Effective Ministry is an insightful guide for any leader who yearns for a simpler, more effective approach to ministry.

When God blesses a church with numerical growth, the organization can drift towards complexity.  Deliberate Simplicity taught me the principle “less is more” and how this approach to church can equip believers for eternal influence.  Church innovator Dave Browning unpacks the six elements of a new equation for church development.  These concepts—minimality, intentionality, reality, multility, velocity, and scalability—provide a realistic plan for streamlining church while maximizing impact.

Biblical Church Growth: How You Can Work with God to Build a Faithful Church by Gary McIntosh

There are many popular models for church growth based on outstanding churches led by outstanding pastors. But unfortunately, specific models are temporary and go out of style quickly.  Gary McIntosh explores the biblical principles for church growth and applies them to today's culture.  Instead of concentrating on the ephemeral how of church growth, he focuses on the unchanging why.  McIntosh defines church growth as "all that is involved in bringing men and women who do not have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ into fellowship with him and into responsible church membership." In other words, church growth is effective evangelism, not a methodology for increasing membership.

Taking Your Church to the Next Level: What Got You Here Won't Get You There by Gary McIntosh

All local churches experience a predictable life cycle of growth and decline.  But if a church is on a downward trend, how can it turn around?  Taking Your Church to the Next Level explains the impact of age and size on churches and outlines the improvements that must be made at each point for a church to remain fruitful and faithful to its mission.  McIntosh deftly describes the cycles of fruitfulness and the importance of continual improvement to diminish destructive forces that keep a congregation from its mission.  Church leaders, pastors, and all who care about the church and desire to see it experience biblical growth will benefit from the sage wisdom offered in these pages.

Growth by Accident, Death by Planning: How Not to Kill a Growing Congregation by Bob Whitesel

A congregation that had been growing in numbers and spiritual vitality reaches a plateau, and then begins to decline.  Most of the time, the plateau occurs long before the church arrives at the optimum numbers of members it hoped to attract.  The real question, says Bob Whitesel, is why the church grew in the first place.  A GREAT READ!

Church Unique: How Missional Leaders Cast Vision, Capture Culture, and Create Movement by Will Mancini

Will Mancini (founder, Auxano consulting group) believes that all churches need not be megachurches like Willowcreek (IL) or Saddleback (CA).  He helps leaders focus on their own unique cultures and congregational fingerprints.  Once churches grasp that they are one of a kind-much like galaxies, fossils, DNA, and sandbanks-they can then, Mancini writes, unleash their full potential.  The book, complete with an appendix as well as logos and icons illustrating various churches' visionary thinking, is strengthened by numerous flow charts, diagrams, graphics, and pithy quotes.

According to some, it has the potential to unseat Rick Warren's The Purpose-Driven Church in popularity.  In my opinion, academic libraries will probably pass on this title for its admitted lack of supporting empirical evidence.


Which books have you read?

Did any of these books change your life?

Which ones do you want to read?

Clarence E. Stowers, Jr.

Senior Pastor
Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago
5916 W. Lake Street
Chicago, IL 60644
Phone: 773-287-3535
Fax: 773-287-7133
pastorstowers@marshillchgo.org
Visit our church @ Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago
Latest on my blog @ The Urban Pastor
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My Photos - Lauren's Christmas Program

Another proud moment for a proud father...

Clarence E. Stowers, Jr.
Senior Pastor
Mars Hill Baptist Church
5916 W. Lake Street
Chicago, Illinois 60644
Phone: 773-287-3535
Fax: 773-287-7133
pastorstowers@marshillchgo.org
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Happy Birthday Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.

A Fraternity is commonly defined by Webster as the state of being Brothers, a brotherly relationship within a student organization formed chiefly to promote friendship and welfare among the members.

Seven Jewels

The opening of the school year, 1905-1906, found at Cornell University, Ithaca, New York, a group of students distributed in the various colleges of the University, who were desirous of maintaining more intimate contacts with one another than their classroom study permitted.  They often met in groups during the Autumn of 1905 and talked of the possibilities of closer contacts among themselves.  Different ones among them took the lead in calling these meetings, which were informal in ever detail.

After several meetings, on December 4, 1906 those in attendance decided to become a fraternity and Alpha Phi Alpha was born.  It came as an evolution through trial and struggle.  It was not spontaneous, but gradual in its growth.  Alpha Phi Alpha has not always been the great fraternity that it is today.  Its founders, however, were always great men with keen vision, undaunted courage, indomitable fortitude, and unparalleled tenacity.

There were seven men who founded Alpha Phi Alpha in 1906.  Each of these men were destined to play a highly significant role in the formative years of our great fraternity.  The members of Alpha Phi Alpha have decreed that the Founders be designated as JEWELS of the Fraternity.  The Founders (Jewels) of Alpha Phi Alpha are as follows:

Jewel Henry Arthur Callis
Jewel Charles Henry Chapman
Jewel Eugene Kinckle Jones
Jewel George Biddle Kelley
Jewel Nathaniel Allison Murray
Jewel Robert Harold Ogle
Jewel Vertner Woodson Tandy

The original seven who remained steadfast to the idea of a Greek-letter Fraternity, during the months of uncertainty, did not waiver in their effforts to bring about the realization of their vision.  Therefore, I salute all the men who’ve crossed the burning sands and proudly call themselves “Alphas.”  Happy Birthday dear brothers & always remember:

Manly deeds, scholarship, & love for all mankind…

Onward & Upward – ‘06

Brother Clarence E. Stowers, Jr.
Jackson State University
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.
Delta Phi Chapter – Spring 1987
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How The Mighty Fall

In case you've wondered what happened to my blog, rest assured because all is well!  I had to take time and prepare for my doctoral thesis defense.  Consequently, I've had to steal away and prepare.  I've been sort of "micro-blogging" primarily through facebook and Twitter.

I just started reading a book by Jim Collins (author of Good to Great) titled, How the Mighty Fall. Collins unveils several years’ worth of research on why great companies collapse. These are companies like Zenith, Circuit City, Bank of America, Merck, IBM, etc. They were at some point leaders in the industry and seemingly invincible, but they have all suffered horrendous falls. Collins says there are five stages of decline.

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Here is an interesting quote:

I’ve come to see institutional decline like a staged disease: harder to detect but easier to cure in the earlier stages, easier to detect but harder to cure in the later stages. An institution can look strong on the outside but already be sick on the inside, dangerously on the cusp of a precipitous fall.

Here is what struck me in the first few chapters: stage 1 of decline is “”Hubris Born of Success”, i.e. pride. Collins is not writing from a Christian perspective, but his research states that great companies begin a skid to irrelevancy and death by pride. The insidious cocktail of entitlement and arrogance begins to course through the company’s veins and eventually seduces it into stage 2, and thus, the decline is well under way.

What is true for the organizations we work for and serve is also true about our own lives. Proverbs 16:18 says, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” Or perhaps Proverbs 11:2, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” Lastly, Mark 7:20-22 says, “And he said, ‘What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come…pride.”

Dictionary.com defines “pride” as, “a high or inordinate opinion of one’s own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or as displayed in bearing, conduct, etc.” The antidote for pride is humility. Humility is the root of any virtue and all graces flow from it. The purest form of humility was displayed in the life and death of Jesus Christ. The One who deserves all accolades and praise came to serve. The One who is esteemed above all else emptied himself and died on a cross (Phil. 2:1-11). He laid down his life for the proud, but then, our pride is what keeps us from seeing and savoring this.

One of The Greatest Messages Ever - "That's My King"

As a preacher's kid (P.K) & pastor, I've heard many great messages throughout my lifetime.  Some messages were quick cures for insomnia while others made the hair on the back of my neck stand up.  Dr. S.M. Lockridge preached a sermon 25 years ago that rocked my world!

That's My King from Dustin Bankord

Dr. Shadrach Meshach (S.M.) Lockridge (March 7, 1913 - April 4, 2000) was the Pastor of Calvary Baptist Church, a prominent African-American congregation located in San Diego, CA

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